Some states consider a couple legally separated when they have signed a separation or marital settlement agreement and relocated to separate homes.
A separation agreement is a binding contract, but the contract is between the spouses and doesn't involve the court until they’re divorced and it becomes part of a decree. In other states, legal separation is a process similar to divorce.
Legal separation can mean different things in different states, so it should come as no surprise that the laws regarding dating after legal separation are also somewhat inconsistent.
To further complicate matters, the Uniform Code of Military Justice has its own laws regarding adultery among members of the United States military.
South Carolina is not a progressive state when it comes to divorce.
If a spouse commits adultery prior to the beginning of the separation, it affects issues of alimony.
If a married but separated man takes a woman out for dinner, but drops her off at the end of the evening and goes his own way, it’s generally not adultery. If he dates that woman repeatedly and they begin spending time together in each other’s homes, this can open the door for his spouse to claim the affair is adulterous because sexual contact might be taking place.
In some states, adultery is a crime, although it is rarely prosecuted.
Therefore, if the adultery occurred after separation and not before, it may be excusable during a military inquiry.
It would depend on the opinion of the officers conducting the inquiry.
Getting a quick divorce in Virginia depends on your capacity for patience and your definition of quick – there's no such thing, especially without your spouse's cooperation and if you don't want to cast blame.